孩子從生長的環境中學習

美國心理學家、教育家、詩人Dorothy Law Nolte

“Children Learn What They Live” (by Dorothy Law Nolte)
〈孩子從生長的環境中學習〉

批評中長大的孩子，責難他人。
If children live with criticism, they learn to condemn.


敵意中長大的孩子，喜歡吵架。
If children live with hostility, they learn to fight.


恐懼中長大的孩子，常常憂慮。
If children live with fear, they learn to be apprehensive.


憐憫中長大的孩子，遺憾自己。
If children live with pity, they learn to feel sorry for themselves.


嘲笑中長大的孩子，個性羞怯。
If children live with ridicule, they learn to feel shy.


猜忌中長大的孩子，容易妒嫉。
If children live with jealousy, they learn to feel envy.


羞恥中長大的孩子，自覺有罪。
If children live with shame, they learn to feel guilty.


鼓勵中長大的孩子，深具自信。
If children live with encouragement, they learn confidence.


寬容中長大的孩子，能夠忍耐。
If children live with tolerance, they learn patience.

稱讚中長大的孩子，懂得感恩。
If children live with praise, they learn appreciation.


接納中長大的孩子，懂得去愛。
If children live with acceptance, they learn to love.


認可中長大的孩子，喜歡自己。
If children live with approval, they learn to like themselves.


賞識中長大的孩子，會有目標。
If children live with recognition, they learn it is good to have a goal.


分享中長大的孩子，慷慨大方。
If children live with sharing, they learn generosity.


誠信中長大的孩子，理解真理。
If children live with honesty, they learn truthfulness.